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Learning to let go should be learned before learning to get. Life should be touched, not strangled. You’ve got to relax, let it happen at times, and at others move forward with it.

- Ray Bradbury (via thecalminside)

There comes a day when you realise turning the page is the best feeling in the world - because you realise there’s so much more to the book than the page you were stuck on.

- Zayn Malik (via onlinecounsellingcollege)

I do not fear it: I have been there.

- Sylvia Plath, Elm (via literarytosser)

I am so fed up and joyless that not only have I nothing to fill my soul, I cannot even conceive of anything that could possibly satisfy it.

- Søren Kierkegaard (via cawwmeow)

Sometimes the key to making progress, is to recognize how to take that very first step. Than you start your journey. You hope for the best and you stick with it, day in day out. Even if you’re tired, even if you wanna walk away. You don’t, because you’re a warrior. But nobody ever said it’ll be easy.

- Meredith Grey (via another-girl-interruptedx)

1. you can’t fix anything using drugs, alcohol, and hate. they’re temporary fixes to deeper problems you’re scared to face.
2. at some point, we all become someone we hate. but, if you don’t stay that person, it’s perfectly fine sweetie. you can change.
3. mental health matters in front of everything. baby i ignored my mental health for years and look where it got me, only god knows the amount i suffered from it.
4. take problems up front. never wait, don’t say you’ll deal with it later because when later comes, you’ll say the same thing. take the problem and fix it, i know that you can.
5. never let a single person tell you you are worth less. always always always have confidence, and if you don’t, fake it. confidence will get you farther than anything else. and trust me, people will notice.
6. failing is not the end of the world. sometimes it’s good to fail. it reminds you that you’re human and it keeps your ego in check. besides, if i had never failed, i wouldn’t be here today.
7. love everything around you. if you’re in a shitty situation, there’s always that daisy in a field of shit. you just gotta search a little more. good comes from every situation.
8. you might not believe in karma but you should still apply the policy. be good to others, it’ll take you far.
9. nothing is the end of the world. it all keeps going whether or not you’re here to see it. you can always recover.
10. love yourself. such few people do and it’s sad. you are made of stardust, love, and a little secret ingredient that’s specific to you that no one else has. be proud of it baby.

- 10 things I wish my mom would have told me (via andiwentupinflames)
huffingtonpost:

9 Things Only People With Depression Can Truly Understand

The frustration that comes when someone suggests you can “snap out of it.”
The hard truth is, depression is not the sort of thing you can just wake up and be over one morning — and suggesting such may be sending an unsupportive message. According to John F. Greden, M.D., the executive director of the University of Michigan Comprehensive Depression Center, these phrases often stem from a lack of understanding of mental illness.

"When [loved ones] don’t understand what’s happening, their responses are ‘suck it up’ and ‘stop feeling sorry for yourself,’" Greden tells The Huffington Post. "It’s not understood that these are underlying illnesses and chemical abnormalities, so what they’ll do is use these phrases. … These comments are probably one of the worst irritations."
Read more here

huffingtonpost:

9 Things Only People With Depression Can Truly Understand

The frustration that comes when someone suggests you can “snap out of it.”

The hard truth is, depression is not the sort of thing you can just wake up and be over one morning — and suggesting such may be sending an unsupportive message. According to John F. Greden, M.D., the executive director of the University of Michigan Comprehensive Depression Center, these phrases often stem from a lack of understanding of mental illness.

"When [loved ones] don’t understand what’s happening, their responses are ‘suck it up’ and ‘stop feeling sorry for yourself,’" Greden tells The Huffington Post. "It’s not understood that these are underlying illnesses and chemical abnormalities, so what they’ll do is use these phrases. … These comments are probably one of the worst irritations."

Read more here

The meaning of life is just to be alive. It is so plain and so obvious and so simple. And yet, everybody rushes around in a great panic as if it were necessary to achieve something beyond themselves.

- Alan Watts (via thecalminside)
hateboner:

Someday, I’m going to be Dale. It’s inevitable. 


It’s happened. I’ve become Dale Gribble. The government is trying to take away my rights, I’m often paranoid, and I want nothing to do with the general public.

hateboner:

Someday, I’m going to be Dale. It’s inevitable. 

It’s happened. I’ve become Dale Gribble. The government is trying to take away my rights, I’m often paranoid, and I want nothing to do with the general public.

hexabeast:

alleecat2:

the-bucky-barnes:

My cat loves when we play CAH because she squeezes into the box and becomes some kind of monorail…

Cats Against Humanity

THe biggest, blackest cat

Reblog this if you like Harry Potter. No questions, just do. It’ll make sense later.

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terrysdiary:


MOST OF THE STUFF PEOPLE WORRY ABOUT NEVER HAPPENS

terrysdiary:

MOST OF THE STUFF PEOPLE WORRY ABOUT NEVER HAPPENS

thyves:

im not like other girls

 

No matter how bad things are, you can always make things worse.

- Randy Pausch, The Last Lecture (via observando)

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